And I was like…
Thursday, September 6th, 2007I’ve noticed lately that I say this a lot, and that most people I know don’t really. I don’t know where I picked it up, and I feel like I could be expressing myself more lucidly than simply, “and I was like…” Is this a Californian thing? Or maybe Californian plus whoever out there watches too much MTV/The OC type beach bimbo media.
Even through it does get the point across, there are a lot of things that get the point across and aren’t so ideal to say. It might even be annoying (if someone finds this annoying, please tell me!) I’m trying to imagine any of my professors saying, “I was like…” and I can’t. And what exactly am I trying to communicate by saying, “I was like…”? Certainly everyone else has appropriate replacements, and I haven’t been paying much attention to what those are. Sometimes it means, “And I said…” but sometimes I didn’t really say anything. So it could mean, “And I thought,” but that’s not quite accurate either. “And I imagined myself saying…” — while I do imagine myself saying things (and often accidentally say these things aloud), this is unwieldy and not very eloquent. Perhaps, “And my reaction/response was,” but that’s also not so all-purpose.
Then again, the all-purpose vagueness is also what makes, “And I was like…” such an undesirable clause to use. Oh well. I guess I need to get creative.


